Your first booked erotic massage at Fantaziemassage might bring excitement mixed with uncertainty. Understanding proper etiquette transforms that nervous energy into genuine relaxation and ensures both you and your therapist have a positive experience. Here are the do’s and dont’s of erotic massage.
Preparation Starts Before You Arrive
Personal hygiene matters more than you might think, and not just in a massage environment. Take a thorough shower within two hours of your appointment. Pay special attention to areas your therapist will touch. Most quality studios offer shower facilities, so don’t worry if you’re coming straight from the airport or a business meeting. Just plan for an extra 10-15 minutes before your session begins.
Leave your cologne or perfume at home. Strong scents tend to overwhelm the intimate setting of a massage room. Your therapist works inches from your skin, and artificial fragrances interfere with the sensory experience you’re both creating. Clean skin and natural body chemistry work far better.
Arrive on time – not fifteen minutes early, not five minutes late. Studios schedule appointments with precise timing to maintain privacy between clients. Early arrival puts you in an awkward position of waiting where other clients might see you. Late arrival either shortens your session or disrupts the schedule for everyone after you.
Communication Sets the Foundation
Tell your therapist about any physical limitations before the session starts. Bad back? Sensitive areas? Recent injuries? Speaking up protects you from discomfort and helps your therapist tailor the experience. This conversation happens during the brief consultation, not mid-session when you’re already on the table.
Discuss boundaries clearly. Professional erotic massage studios operate within specific limits, and understanding these limits beforehand prevents awkward situations. Ask what the session includes and doesn’t include. Reputable therapists appreciate direct questions because clarity benefits everyone.
Once the session begins, verbal communication becomes more nuanced. Brief feedback helps: “more pressure here,” “softer touch,” “that feels good.” Long conversations disrupt the meditative quality of the experience. Your therapist reads your body language and breathing. You can trust this non-verbal dialogue.
During the Session
Relax your body completely. Many first-time clients unconsciously tense up, especially in intimate moments. Your therapist notices this immediately. Conscious relaxation dramatically improves your experience. Correct breathing techniques are especially important in this context.
Never touch your therapist without invitation. This boundary remains absolute. Professional erotic massage, with a few notable exceptions, involves you receiving touch, not initiating it. Some therapists incorporate mutual touching at specific moments, but they’ll guide you explicitly. When in doubt, keep your hands at your sides or wherever your therapist positions them.
Natural bodily responses happen, that’s expected and perfectly welcome. Therapists train extensively to create an environment where you feel comfortable with your body’s reactions. Don’t apologize, don’t feel embarrassed. Professional therapists view physical responses as feedback that their technique works.
Avoid comparing your session to adult entertainment. Erotic massage follows therapeutic principles with sensual elements. Your therapist isn’t performing for you, they’re guiding you through a wellness experience that happens to involve intimate touch.
What Never Works
- Don’t negotiate prices or services during the session. These conversations happen at booking or during the initial consultation. Attempting to add services or request discounts mid-appointment creates an uncomfortable dynamic and often results in your session ending abruptly.
- Never try to record video or take photos. This should go without saying, but apparently it needs stating. Studios take privacy seriously – yours and theirs. Cameras violate consent and trust. Most studios have you leave your phone in a locker for this exact reason.
- Don’t show up intoxicated. A glass of wine to calm nerves is one thing. Arriving drunk or high is another entirely. Therapists reserve the right to refuse service to intoxicated clients, and you’ll still pay for the appointment you’re missing.
- Aggressive behavior gets you banned immediately. Grabbing, demanding, or making crude comments crosses professional boundaries. Therapists work in vulnerable positions and studios maintain zero-tolerance policies for client misconduct. Respectful behavior is mandatory.
Payment and Tipping
Handle payment logistics before your session, not after. Most studios accept card payments, though some prefer cash. Confirm their payment methods when booking. Paying beforehand means you leave relaxed rather than fumbling for your wallet while still in a blissful state.
Tipping practices vary by location. In Prague and most European cities, tipping isn’t expected but is appreciated for exceptional service. A 10-20% tip shows genuine appreciation. Hand the tip directly to your therapist in cash, even if you paid for the session by card.
After Your Session
Give yourself transition time. Don’t schedule important calls or meetings immediately after. Your body and mind need at least 30 minutes to integrate the experience. Many clients feel pleasantly disoriented, which is not the best state for negotiating business contracts.
Drink plenty of water. Massage releases deeply lodged toxins and dehydrates your tissues. Proper hydration after your session supports the therapeutic benefits and prevents next-day soreness.
Building a Relationship With Your Therapist
Regular clients develop rapport with specific therapists. This familiarity enhances the experience because your therapist learns your preferences and responds to your body’s individual patterns. When booking subsequent appointments, request the same therapist if possible.
Respect that professional boundaries remain constant, even after multiple sessions. Familiarity shouldn’t translate into presumption. Your therapist’s warmth and skill at creating intimacy during sessions doesn’t indicate interest in a relationship outside that professional context.
Trust the Process
Erotic massage works best when you surrender control and trust your therapist’s expertise. They’ve guided hundreds of clients through similar experiences. Your job is simply to breathe, relax, and receive. Everything else falls under their skillful guidance.
Respect, communication, and preparation create the foundation. Everything else flows naturally from there.
